When I created my wedding favours, complimentary pin badges, I wanted them to be more than just a keepsake—I wanted them to make people feel truly special. I personalised the backing cards with compliments unique to each guest. The only rule? I couldn’t mention their appearance. It had to be about who they were as a person, not what they looked like.

It was such a joy seeing their reactions! It made me realise how powerful words can be when we take a moment to appreciate each other for our kindness, talents, and personalities.

So, behold! Here are thirty ways to compliment someone without focusing on their appearance. Save this list for those moments when you want to make someone’s day.

30 compliments to show your appreciation:

1. You have a way of making people feel comfortable and valued.
2. Your enthusiasm is infectious—being around you lifts my spirits!
3. You always know exactly what to say to cheer someone up.
4. You are such a thoughtful and considerate person.
5. I admire the way you tackle challenges head-on.
6. Your creativity always inspires me.
7. You make even the most ordinary moments feel special.
8. Your passion for what you love is truly inspiring.
9. You have a wonderful ability to bring people together.
10. I appreciate how much effort you put into making others feel included.
11. Your kindness makes the world a better place.
12. You have a brilliant sense of humour—I love how you make me laugh!
13. You are one of the most genuine people I know.
14. Your dedication to what you believe in is admirable.
15. You have a gift for making people feel heard and understood.
16. Your optimism is a ray of sunshine on a cloudy day.
17. You are an amazing listener, and I always feel safe talking to you.
18. Your generosity never goes unnoticed.
19. You make learning new things exciting and fun.
20. I love how you always find joy in the little things.
21. Your resilience is truly inspiring.
22. You have an incredible ability to stay calm under pressure.
23. The way you support your friends and family is beautiful.
24. You are wonderfully quirky, and I adore that about you.
25. Your perspective on life is refreshing and insightful.
26. You bring a unique and valuable energy to every room you enter.
27. I always leave our conversations feeling happier and lighter.
28. Your kindness is effortless and deeply appreciated.
29. You have a brilliant way of turning challenges into opportunities.
30. You make the world a brighter place just by being in it.

Compliments have the power to uplift, strengthen connections, and spread joy. So, whether it’s a wedding, a birthday, or just an ordinary Tuesday, take a moment to let someone know what makes them truly special. You never know—you might just make their day!